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Hello everyone, how's it going?
This is going to be a little explanation of one of my biggest issues: my social insecurity.
As i mentioned in a previous journal, i'm a huge introvert, so it's hard for me to talk to other people and especially girls. But there's more to this than just talking from person to person...
I am really bad at answering to others via messages. If someone sends me a message via Whatsapp, Facebook or even here on Deviantart, i have a hard time answering to this message. But why is that so?
Well...thanks to another issue that i've got, i have a very low self-esteem. And because of that, i don't think to high of myself, or see myself as important. So i don't go to parties that often, or have that much social contacts in general. I don't see myself as a person you want to talk to or even spend time with.
So, if someone texts me on any platform, i see the message, i read the message...but i can't get myself to answer to it. And it doesn't matter who sends it, if it's someone from my family, my friends or someone different. And i hate that, but i can't help it. I tried multiple times to fight it, but...till now, i failed.
So if you send me a note on here, and i don't answer in a couple of days, it's not because of you. I know i'm not the only one with this issue, but i don't know if others talk about it.
Anyway, i just wanted to tell you guys. I know that there are a couple of awesome guys doing rps with me. So like i said, it's not because of you, it's because of me.
I hope you have a nice day.
See ya!
This is going to be a little explanation of one of my biggest issues: my social insecurity.
As i mentioned in a previous journal, i'm a huge introvert, so it's hard for me to talk to other people and especially girls. But there's more to this than just talking from person to person...
I am really bad at answering to others via messages. If someone sends me a message via Whatsapp, Facebook or even here on Deviantart, i have a hard time answering to this message. But why is that so?
Well...thanks to another issue that i've got, i have a very low self-esteem. And because of that, i don't think to high of myself, or see myself as important. So i don't go to parties that often, or have that much social contacts in general. I don't see myself as a person you want to talk to or even spend time with.
So, if someone texts me on any platform, i see the message, i read the message...but i can't get myself to answer to it. And it doesn't matter who sends it, if it's someone from my family, my friends or someone different. And i hate that, but i can't help it. I tried multiple times to fight it, but...till now, i failed.
So if you send me a note on here, and i don't answer in a couple of days, it's not because of you. I know i'm not the only one with this issue, but i don't know if others talk about it.
Anyway, i just wanted to tell you guys. I know that there are a couple of awesome guys doing rps with me. So like i said, it's not because of you, it's because of me.
I hope you have a nice day.
See ya!
Happy Holidays and a happy New Year
Hello everyone!
I hope you're having wonderful holidays at the moment^^
2018 is right around the corner, and you can now recap how 2017 was for you.
Make 2018 your year! Take your chances, treat yourself, and be your very best!^^
See your next year! ;)
The reason i'm looking for a girlfriend...
Hi guys, how are you?
As the title suggests, i'm still on the lookout for someone special. And as i mentioned in a previous journal, it's a big challenge for me, i'm not succesful with the girls.
And i know what some of you might think: "Rome, why do you keep trying? If you're not succesful, just give up, you're wasting your time!" Trust me, i tell myself the same from time to time.
But i won't give up, i know that there's somebody out there for me. (Sounds pretty cliché, i know^^)
But what is the reason why? Why do i want a girlfriend/future wife?
Well, there are multiple reasons, but one stands out the most. And that is...feeling
OC Tagging - Silver Lining
Hi there!
I got tagged by http://krx34.deviantart.com to give 8 facts about my OC Silver Lining.
So, here we go^^
1. Silver was born in Fillydelphia, but grew up in Canterlot since his parents had to move. Immediatly after his birth, he was at the verge of death. He was a preemie, and he had to stay on the intensive care unit for quite some time. Luckily, he survived and grew up pretty normaly.
2. His parents are quite famous. His father Darkwing is a high ranked member of the Royal Guard, while his mother High Heels was a famous model and actress, and also a cousin of Photo Finish. He also got a big brother named Smart Tech, who's a geni
Feeling down lately
Hey guys, how's it going?
I hope you're feeling fine, because i...don't. Basicly feeling down because of...a girl.
I've been trying to date a girl and to stay in touch with her for the past few months. And it started out fine, we met at a friends party, got eachothers number, chatted with eachother...the usual stuff.
We've met a couple of times, not to real dates, but yeah...i had high hopes for this.
For your understanding: I'm a HUGE introvert, plus i'm single since i'm 17(i'm 27, so go figure). And i've got issues(don't want to talk about them right now), so...talking to other people, especially to girls, is a huge task for me.
So, th
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Oh man. That truly sounds terrible because it's really bad to feel that way and I feel that you should fight this "low self-esteem" immediately with the best of your ability. I can even help you out with it too since I don't like it when people are suffering these type of problems. Trust me... You should really not stress and don't think of yourself as failure either. I can tell that you're good person that needs help and I know that your friends would want to help you too. >m< If you wanna talk to me, then let me know because I can help you out like a psychologist.